Christmas cards
If you are still in the habit of sending Christmas cards, why not send eCards instead this year; or you could let everyone know you are donating to a charity instead of spending money buying cards and stamps.
‘Good enough’ will be great
Don’t knock yourself out trying to create the ‘perfect’ Christmas.
If you are hosting a Christmas event, such as lunch or dinner, you don’t have to make everything from scratch. Take a few shortcuts such as putting together a cheese and meats platter or ready-made nibbles you just heat up.
Don’t compare your festive season to those you see on Instagram or Facebook – what you are seeing are people’s edited highlights – behind the scenes there is probably a sink full of dishes and kids covered in chocolate!
Make a list
Getting things down on paper can really help you stay sane. With everything on your plate it’s easy forget a Christmas gift or leave someone off your invitation list. Planning meals on paper can also make you feel more in control and prevent you from buying too much food and drink.
Delegate
You can't do everything so divide chores between your family and if you have visitors to share the burden. If people are gathering at your house over the festive season, ask everyone to provide food or drink to ease the stress.
You can say no!
Instead of trying to attend every gathering you’ve been invited to, pick one or two and politely decline the other invitations.
Family
Prepare for visits from family members by having a list of activities you can do with them (especially if children are coming as well). Outdoor activities could include cricket or a game of soccer, or if it’s too hot, pull out the board games, card games or a jigsaw.
Spread the joy
Instead of knocking yourself out trying to create the perfect Christmas, make it better for someone else. If you have a friend or neighbour who will be on their own, invite them to spend time with you and your family. This can make a massive difference in someone’s life.
